There are many writers in the world. In fact, every one of us has this tiny light flickering inside of us dreaming to write a book one day. Maybe our own story which we want to tell the whole world. But not everyone is able to achieve that. The major difference between the writers that grab that light to become successful and the writers who completely ignore it is the mindset. More precisely, The Winning Mindset.
Looking back into my own journey, trying to connect the dots, I see a few ideas standing out. Saving the obvious one for the end, the first one I want to share is:
1. Learning over earning
A lot of writers worry about earning before they even start. It is, of course, important to consider but it shouldn’t be everything. First of all, learning has to preside over everything. Until you gain enough knowledge and experience, learning should get all your focus.
I know how this might sound to those who just started. Vague. But this advice weighs more than you think.
2. Don’t think I’ll do it when I’m ready
Opportunities test your courage and then your knowledge. Not the other way around. So don’t wait until you feel ‘ready.’ When an opportunity comes along, do it if there’s even a minor possibility. Obviously, you will make mistakes while doing it and it’s okay, take your lesson and move on to another opportunity.
It may not be possible in other fields, like medicine or law, but this definitely works in the creative industry. This is how I got ready.
3. Take writing seriously
Like a job, or better, a business. Don’t think of it as just a hobby if you want to monetize your writing. I couldn’t make clear decisions until I made up my mind. So ask yourself, do you want writing to be your hobby or profession?
Because whatever you decide will reflect on your journey. This clears the fog in mind, helping us see the path clearly.
4. Be ready for rejections
Rejections are part of life and career. They redirect you just like GPS until you reach your destinations. It might be frustrating at the time but they are essential to one’s success.
We all agree to this but it is quite difficult to stay calm when there is an actual rejection, isn’t it? But don’t stress yourself too much, practice gratitude and stay calm.
5. Have an open mind
This is the obvious one I was talking about at the beginning. But this time, let me give you a practical tip.
Do you have so many questions and opinions when you start something new? Like a workshop or a course, for example.
DON’T.
I learnt this late but having too many preconceptions will veil your eyes from seeing the real picture. Don’t go somewhere thinking you will be deserted there, it makes the journey way more difficult.
Tell yourself “this is going to help me,” or “this will be a great experience.” Else, simply, “I’m ready for it.”
This winning mindset made so much difference in my life. Do you think they can be helpful in your journey as well?
Cheers!